Make a happy memory
July 3rd, 2007Today we sit on the eve of the 4th of July. Happy birthday, America!
I have joyous memories of the 4th growing up. Each year on this day a county fair-like celebration was held on Sand Mountain. Granddaddy Traylor gave money to each of his grandsons to spend at the fair. I remember one year there was a man that blew himself up in a large box. Yet he would walk out of the smoke unharmed. I was scared and amazed. I guess he was like a human cannonball – without a cannon. After the day at the fair we all went back to my grandparents’ humble house and cut cold watermelons out under the huge oak trees in the backyard. These are memories I will take to my grave.
I challenge you to make memories with your family this 4th of July. It does not take a lot of money but it will take time and undivided attention. Cook out, light sparklers, watch a fireworks display or go for a swim. Whatever you do, I hope your family will still be talking about it 40 years from now. I am glad I grew up in an American family that made good memories.
Pastor Ted Traylor
July 5th, 2007 at 8:16 am
Dear Ted,
My husband and I were in Pcola this past weekend and attended the Sunday service. You officiated our wedding some 12 years ago. You had many wise words for a newly married couple then and you continue today. Thank you for applauding women (families) that make sacrifices to stay home with thier children. I grew up with a single mom, who worked many jobs, day and night, to provide for this child so I condemn or judge not. I appreciate her sacrifices in that regard.
But now as a mother of 4, I know the importance (and struggles) of staying home with your children. I worked full time with 1, part time with 2 and was able to stay home when 3 and 4 came along. I have even been priviledged enough to homeschool them for the past 4 years, with undescribable support from the working mom that raised me.
I know the struggles of coming home out of work and letting go of another income. And I can say it hurt, I made good money and had a rewarding job as an SLP in hospital. I know the hardships of budgeting your groceries, using hand me down clothes, forgoing the home with a pool, not having cable (like it’s worth it), getting rid of call waiting, choosing vehicle that you can pay for without debt, etc.
It is all worth it!! It can be done!! If you feel your finances don’t allow it…remove the smoke screen. I encourage families to take a Dave Ramsey class, downsize, work from home if possible, sacrifice and give the best gift you can to your children…your time and energies. If you feel you can’t handle being with children all day, pray that God will change your heart and turn it towards the rearing of your children. His Word is very clear on His heart towards children. We are only adequate in Him. If your spouse doesn’t see the need, pray for him. It took my husband two years and when I started working parttime, he saw the benefits for the children AND him…and God softened his heart and cleared his financial fears. He is my biggest support!
Children are a reward from Heaven and thank you Brother Ted for addressing it boldly in your sermon.
Love and appreciation! Betty